For the past year, I've dreamed of writing a book. This desire actually used to be very pressing as a young child, but got left in the dust somewhere around middle school/high school. A couple months ago I finally had the inspiration I needed to write my first book, which will be a self published eBook sold on Amazon for kindle. Needless to say, I am ridiculously excited about it, and it is almost completed, minus some final bits and pieces and some serious editing. Okay, so maybe that means it's not almost done. But still, it's getting close!
I am writing on the topic of "hosting". I write in the book that hosting is something that I absolutely LOVE doing, but it is not without it's challenges. Hospitality is a gifting that I have, and it comes naturally to me, but over the years, I've realized that this is not the case for everyone. For many people, hosting people in their homes can feel overwhelming or just not even worth the cleaning, prep, time, etc. Or, many people just simply "don't know how". I'm aiming to help women break down some of the barriers that may keep them from hosting people in their homes. One of the main questions that my book addresses is "how do we keep hosting simple and enjoyable so that we can avoid feeling overwhelmed and make hosting guests a
regular aspect of our lives?"
So, I'm looking for some help. Everyone of you has something valuable to add to this conversation. Although I've talked about this topic with many women over the past couple years, I'm looking for as much input on this subject as possible so that I can make this book as beneficial as it can be! In the comments below, will you please answer one or any of the applicable questions below? I would be immensely grateful! If you don't want to leave your name for whatever reason, please feel free to comment anonymously.
Thank you so much!
1) If you love hosting: What are your favorite by-products of having people in your home?
2) If you hate hosting: What makes hosting difficult for you? What is the most challenging aspect of having people in your home?
3) When you are in someone else's home: What are the top 2 or 3 things that a host does that make you feel welcome, comfortable, or safe?
4) What are the top 2 or 3 things that a host has done to make you feel uncomfortable, unwelcome, or as though you were as hassle to them?
5) When you have people in your home, what to you typically do/eat/etc. (i.e. guests for dinner, just dessert, game night, watch a movie, drink coffee, craft together, parties, etc.)?
6) If married: Do you and your spouse host in a similar way? Do you have similar ideas as to what your time together should look like?
7) If you have kids: What are the most challenging aspects of hosting guests in your home when you have small children? Older children?
8) How do finances affect your ability/desire to host?